청소년 내담자의 친구문제와 대처방식에 대한 연구
A Study on the Friendship Problem and Coping Skills of the Adolescent Clients
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본 연구는 친구문제를 가지고 상담실을 찾은 청소년 내담자들의 친구고민에 대한 특징을 탐색한 것이다. 8명의 개인상담 내담자를 면접하여 합의에 의한 질적 연구법(concensual qualitative research)을 통해 분석한 결과는 다음과 같다. 첫째, 청소년 내담자들이 기대하는 친구의 모습은 깊은 속마음을 나누며 정서적 지지와 도움을 받을 수 있는 모습이었다. 둘째, 친구와 갈등시 청소년 내담자들은 친구문제를 주로 자신의 성격 때문이라고 생각하고 있었다. 셋째, 청소년 내담자들은 주위 사람들에게 적극적으로 도움을 요청하기도 하고, 조용히 참고 지나가려는 소극적인 모습을 나타내는 등 다양한 갈등대처 양식을 보이기도 했다. 넷째, 청소년 내담자들은 교사나 가족보다 친구로부터의 도움을 긍정적으로 평가했다. 다섯째, 청소년 내담자들은 친구를 사귈 때 자신을 드러내는 일을 어려워하고 있었다. 여섯째, 청소년 내담자들은 문제 해결을 위해서는 직접 부딪혀서 대화를 해야한다고 생각하고 있었으나 실제로 행동으로 옮기는 것을 어려워했다. 일곱째, 청소년 내담자들은 친구문제를 해결하는데 개인상담에서 도움을 받았다고 평가했다.
Abstract
Friendship is the most significant social relation throughout a lifetime. Individuals expand to various relationships most during adolescence, regarding peer influence more important than that of parents. Therefore, we counselors have to be ready for intervention and prevention for youth clients at the counseling center. This study was intended to find out the characteristics of the adolescent clients who visited the counseling center with the friendship problems. The subjects were 8 teenagers(3 boys and 5 girls) who have received or are going through individual counseling. The interview questionnaire included 5 categories : the content of the problem, ways of coping with the problem and the results, self-concept, idea of friendship, and evaluation of the counseling process. Through using CQR(consensual qualitative research), researchers analyzed the interview contents of the clients and results are as follows : First, adolescent clients’ image of the ideal friend is an intimate friend providing emotional support and help. Second, on conflicts, adolescent clients attribute the problems to their own personality. Third, adolescent clients have various coping strategies such as actively crying for help to close people and passive endurance. Fourth, adolescent clients value the help of friends more than that of teachers or family members. Fifth, adolescent clients find it difficult to open themselves up to new friends. Sixth, adolescent clients think that they have to use verbal communication for resolving problems, but find it difficult to do so actually. Lastly, adolescent clients appreciate individual counseling and find it helpful for resolving friendship problems.
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