발달적 애도를 통한 변형적 내면화 과정

Abstract

Mourning is not only on separation by death but also on every painful losses. There are pain and sadness when lose the objects which injected one's libido like as nation, job, lover, pet, arts, health, community. When such losses occur to someone who has sealed ego owing to stop of development with serious wounds in phase of development, every psychological connection are stopped and he falls in depression with deep sense of isolation. The disruption of primary bond and internalization will be a obstacle for integration of self and separation and individualization. Every developmental object relationship will be experienced rightly as a human. The fatal frustration will serve as the core of pathology in one's entire life. Because the experiences of deprivation and exploitation and abandonment fill one's self with bad inner object through seperation and fragmentation. In this paper, counselor as a benevolent object and holding environment emotionally helps the client who do not have the developmental process of internalizing to experience the mourning process. The mourning process in such empathy environment facilitate development process, transformative internalization, then client can make new self-representation. In other words, it deals developmental mourning which play a key role in psychological transformation and structuralization in this work. For this purpose, psychoanalytic theories about mourning to be considered and how the empathic role of counselor as a catalyst for developmental process of internalization can lead to client who in a state of pathological mourning with collapse of primary bond and internalization whether a new developmental phase is described in this paper.