현대사회의 혼인 문제와 유가철학의 부부관 - 한국사회의 부부 문제를 중심으로 -

Abstract

Today, Korean society is mixed with various ideologies. First of all, the neo-liberalistic ideology based on selfishness is also affecting marriage customs that should be based on love and trust. Making external conditions a criterion for choosing a spouse or a cause for marital conflict is a case that has been heavily influenced by this neo-liberalistic ideology. On the other hand, there is a culture that values public righteousness over individual selfishness. This ideology induces people to treat them not by means but by purpose. Those who value these rituals do not advocate authoritarian conjugals formed by patriarchal order consciousness. They want to respect each other's character and build a peaceful family culture through equal correlation. This consciousness reflects a democratic sense of equality. However, these view of husband and wife is not fundamentally different from those of traditional view of husband and wife of Confucian philosophy, which focus on the view of fufuzaoduan(夫婦造端) and fufuyoubie(夫婦有別). Historically, the view of husband and wife of Confucian philosophy combined with the authoritarian sangang(三綱) thought to form an unequal culture. However, this sangang(三綱) Idea was influenced by the legal thought, which is essentially different from the content of the early Confucian philosophy centered on wulun(五倫). Unlike the sangang(三綱) thought emphasis on authoritarian patriarchal order, the wulun(五倫) idea pursues equality as a bilateral relationship. The philosophy needed to solve the problem of marital conflict in Korean society today is not the view of fuyufugang(夫爲婦綱), but the view of fufuzaoduan(夫婦造端) and fufuyoubie(夫婦有別). This is to respect each other's personalities and recognize each other's differences on the basis of life thoughts, while pursuing constantly persevering, talking and peaceful harmony to build a healthy community culture. This view can contribute ideologically to solving the problems of many couples who are at odds over such issues as selfishness, personality differences, economy, violence, lifestyle habits, children, lethargy and loneliness.