여성의 부정적 자족감에서 관계지향으로의 전환: 여성주의 관점에서
A Feminist Pastoral Counseling Framework for Understanding Women’s Self-Sufficiency and the Relationship
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The problem of self-sufficiency, which many women deal with nowadays, can have a negative affect on relationships. Self-sufficiency, a term defined as one independently providing for oneself without the help of others, makes it difficult to have intimate connection with others and to mature through those relationships. The influence of Western psychology that emphasizes mostly the self, and the expectation of women’s gender role in the patriarchal society, has led women to build up self-sufficiency. The negative aspect of it, in which the need of the inner self and the social demand of the gender role is conflicted, causes tendency to disconnect and push away intimacy in a relationship. In addition, the main notion of Western psychological concepts, such as autonomy, separation, independence, and generativity influenced putting emphasis on the self apart from connections. This paper provides a perspective on understanding women’s self-sufficiency through analyzing how relationships are affected; moreover, advocating growth-enhanced relationship for women’s mature growth. Two research methods are employed to better understand women’s balanced development of the self and the relationship: feminist pastoral theology and relational-cultural theory. Connections need to be mutual, otherwise, it will not lead to growth. In order to overcome self-sufficiency and to experience a balanced self and relational growth, a mutual relationship that can help and influence one another is needed.
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The problem of self-sufficiency, which many women deal with nowadays, can have a negative affect on relationships. Self-sufficiency, a term defined as one independently providing for oneself without the help of others, makes it difficult to have intimate connection with others and to mature through those relationships. The influence of Western psychology that emphasizes mostly the self, and the expectation of women’s gender role in the patriarchal society, has led women to build up self-sufficiency. The negative aspect of it, in which the need of the inner self and the social demand of the gender role is conflicted, causes tendency to disconnect and push away intimacy in a relationship. In addition, the main notion of Western psychological concepts, such as autonomy, separation, independence, and generativity influenced putting emphasis on the self apart from connections. This paper provides a perspective on understanding women’s self-sufficiency through analyzing how relationships are affected; moreover, advocating growth-enhanced relationship for women’s mature growth. Two research methods are employed to better understand women’s balanced development of the self and the relationship: feminist pastoral theology and relational-cultural theory. Connections need to be mutual, otherwise, it will not lead to growth. In order to overcome self-sufficiency and to experience a balanced self and relational growth, a mutual relationship that can help and influence one another is needed.
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