다윗 왕의 역기능 가족에 대한 목회상담학적 이해와 적용
A Pastoral Counseling View and Application of King David’s Dysfunctional Family
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이 연구의 목적은, 다윗 왕의 역기능 가족을 목회상담학적인 관점에서 이해하고 적용하기 위함이다. 이러한 연구는 현대의 많은 가족들에게서 나타나는 역기능적인 잇슈 들에 대한 목회상담학적 관점의 이해와 적용이란 점에서 필요하다 할 것이다. 연구자는 삼하 13:1-16:23을 중심으로 크게 세 가지 면에서 연구하였다. 첫째, 압살롬의 형제 살인과 반역에 대한 배경, 둘째, 다윗의 분노 다루기와 훈육 실패로 인한 결과들을 살펴보았다. 연구 방법으로는 관련 분문 들을 주해하고, 목회상담, 사회심리학적인 관점에서 분석 후 재해석 하였다. 이에 따른 결과들을 보면, (1) 가족관계의 파괴, (2) 가족 구성원 간의 분노와 원한 관계 형성, (3) 분노처리와 훈육의 실패에 따른 부정적인 영향력 등이다. 셋째로, 다윗의 역기능 가족을 치유하고 회복하기 위한 적용 점 들은 다음과 같다. (1) 위기 상담의 골든 타임의 중요성, (2) 성경적 본이 되는 부모의 역할과 자녀 양육법의 중요성, (3) 적절한 훈육과 징계의 필요성, (4) 가족 모두 분노 다루는 법의 중요성 등이다. 이러한 부분에서 가족 구성원 모두 최선을 다할 때 역기능 가족의 문제를 건강하게 해결할 수 있을 것이다. 또한 목회 현장에서 목회상담을 해야되는 목회자들에게도 다소나마 유용한 제안 들이 될 수 있을 것이다.
Abstract
This research focused on King David’s dysfunctional family from a pastoral counseling perspective to apply to pastoral ministry. This research might be resourceful to pastors and parents who seek to understand and apply this study to counsel dysfunctional families. Three steps were applied in this study. First, the researcher studied the text (2 Sam 13:1-16:23) via brief exegesis to articulate the background of the narrative. Second, the researcher analyzed the text from a pastoral counseling and socio-psychological perspective. As a result of the analysis, the researcher found that David failed to manage anger as a parent. This resulted in three lessons from David’s failure: (1) Destruction of familial relationship, (2) Escalated anger and resentment between family members, (3) Negative influence from ignoring opportunities to bring healing and recovery to the family. Third, the researcher suggested four applications in pastoral counseling and in parenting. King David’s dysfunctional family calls for attention in the areas of (1) the significance of timely crisis counseling, (2) the importance of exemplary parenthood, (3) the importance of proper discipline and punishment in parenting, and (4) the significance of learning to deal with anger management in the family. From this study, pastors and parents may learn valuable lessons to build a biblically healthy family.
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