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부부갈등 회피 유형이 결혼안정성과 결혼만족도에 미치는 영향: 회피 불일치성의 조절효과 검증

A Study on the Effects of the Type of Conflict Avoidance on Marital Stability and Marital Satisfaction: The Moderating Effects of Avoidance Inconsistency with the Spouse

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한국소통학회 (Korean Speech & Communication Association)|2022.02|한국소통학보 (Journal of Speech, Media and Communication Research)|제21권 제1호|pp. 161-202

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결혼만족도결혼안정성marital stabilityMarital satisfaction부부갈등대처방식갈등회피회피 불일치성Marital conflict coping strategiesConflict avoidanceAvoidance inconsistency

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본 연구는 갈등회피의 양가적 특성을 고려하여 그 개념을 ‘경험적 회피’와 ‘부정적 감정회피’의 두 가지 차원으로 구분하고, 이 두 변수가 결혼안정성과 결혼만족도에 미 치는 영향을 검증하였다. 또한 부부사이 ‘회피 불일치성’을 조절변인으로 제시하여 그 효과를 조사하였다. 결혼 5년 이하의 결혼초기부부를 대상으로 설문조사를 실시하였으 며, 남녀 동일 비율의 200명의 응답을 얻었다. 연구 결과, 경험적 회피는 결혼만족도와 결혼안정성에 부정적인 영향을 미치는 것으로 나타났다. 반면, 부정적 감정회피는 결혼 만족도와 결혼안정성에 긍정적인 영향을 미쳤다. 경험적 회피 불일치성은 경험적 회피 와 결혼안정성의 관계를 긍정적으로, 부정적 감정회피 불일치성은 부정적 감정회피와 결혼만족도의 관계를 부정적으로 조절하는 것으로 나타났다. 본 연구는 갈등회피에 초 점을 맞추고 부정적 감정회피가 부부관계에 미치는 긍정적 영향을 밝힌 실증적 조사로 서 의의를 찾는다.

Abstract

This study focused on conflict avoidance and examined its effects on marital relationships. Considering the inconclusive characteristics of avoidance, the concept was divided into two dimensions: ‘experiential avoidance’ and ‘avoiding negative emotions’. The effects of these two variables on marital stability and marital satisfaction were verified. In addition, ‘inconsistency’, the difference in conflict avoidance between couples, was presented as a moderator variable, and the moderating effect was verified. A survey was conducted on married couples in South Korea who have been married for less than five years, and 200 responses were obtained with the same ratio. As a result of the study, experiential avoidance was found to have a negative effect on marital stability and marital satisfaction. On the other hand, avoiding negative emotions had a positive effect on marital stability and marital satisfaction. The inconsistency of experiential avoidance was found to have a positive effect on the relationship between experiential avoidance and marital stability. The inconsistency of avoiding negative emotions had a negative effect on the relationship between avoiding negative emotions and marital satisfaction. This study empirically verified the negative and positive effects of conflict avoidance, which may contribute to marital conflict management studies.

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